Let’s cut to the chase: I’m divorcing Ian.
For this post, in the interest of balance and because this topic so deeply impacts both of us, Ian and are each going to share our perspectives.
Now for some context, without getting into unnecessary detail. Despite uncountable hours of marriage and individual therapy, we got to a point where I couldn’t envision living the rest of my life in our marriage. It took me a long time to accept that I needed to take this step, and I’m not doing it because I hate Ian — I don’t.